This is a continuation of the previous story – The situation will change – 1
In today’s post, we explore how women who got married during the periods mentioned by the sage (from 1981 to 1999) were treated by their families. This discussion sheds light on how the karmas of Venus and Mars prominently influenced the children of those families, serving as gifts from the universe in response to such treatment.
The Sage’s Explanation
During that period, most married women stayed at home, while only a few families allowed women to go to work. Even in cases where they worked, those women often lacked the freedom to save or spend their earnings as they wished, living in a time when such autonomy was denied to them.
For women who stayed at home without going to work, they were expected to complete all household chores and, when it came to meals, they had to eat whatever was provided to them without any say in the matter.
The Basic Needs of a Human Being
In this world, the basic needs for a human being to survive are food to eat, clothes to wear, and a place to live. While women might somehow have access to clothing and shelter, many suffered without being provided proper and sufficient food, which is essential for daily survival.
As soon as the husband received his salary, he would never allocate a portion specifically for his wife. However, he would customarily give an amount to his mother for household expenses. Despite this, the woman endured everything silently. Over time, her health was often neglected, and she lived under the strict supervision of her in-laws, who ensured that her husband was unaware of how she was being treated. The fear of family separation or conflicts between the father and son kept the in-laws in control of the situation. Women who did not work outside the home were expected to endure all hardships, lacking the courage to voice their discontent or reject such a life. The fear of being forced to seek refuge with their parents and the shame of being seen as a burden drove them to endure and adapt to their circumstances.
In today’s times, one of the main reasons children express reluctance toward marriage is the influence of their Mars karma. After marriage, this Mars karma manifests within the family when the woman is not treated properly, and her basic rights and needs are denied. This leads to the emergence of Venus karma in the household. At the same time, the woman’s accumulated frustration is directed toward her husband, and when this happens, Mars karma takes root. As a result, the children born into such families predominantly inherit both the Mars karma and the Venus karma.
In families filled with these two karmas, women who once lived as slaves managed to educate their children well and bring them to a position where they earn a stable income. As a result, these children now assert that they do not need marriage, as they are financially independent. Having witnessed their mother’s struggles, they firmly decide not to live a life of servitude. At the same time, the men born into such families, burdened with these two karmas, fear marriage in today’s world. They lack confidence in their ability to meet the expectations of their future spouse, leading them to delay marriage. Moreover, expectations have risen significantly on both sides, making the situation even more complex. The sage emphasized that only when these individuals undergo a change of heart will this situation improve, and they will consider marriage as a possibility. Time alone holds the answer to how this transformation will occur. Additionally, grandparents who recognize their past mistakes must seek divine forgiveness and pray for their children to have a change of heart. There is no other way. Time will undoubtedly bring change, and when it does, these children will step into the institution of marriage. Until then, everyone should pray with hope for this positive shift, he concluded.
The Karmas in This Post
This post primarily discusses two significant karmas.
Mars Karma:
If a child in a family is born under the stars Karthigai, Pooram, Moolam, or Revathi, either as their zodiac star, the star at the ascendant point, or the star occupied by the lord of the ascendant, it signifies that the child is born with Mars karma as their karmic imprint. Additionally, if the lord of the ascendant is in the eleventh house, the lord of the eleventh house is in the ascendant, the lord of the ascendant is in the seventh house, or the lord of the seventh house is in the ascendant, or if Saturn is positioned in the seventh house, these configurations further indicate Mars karma. Children born with such karmic imprints tend to resist marriage and stubbornly hold onto certain expectations of their own. In contrast, in families where such configurations are absent, the children eventually get married in due course of time, and their lives proceed successfully.
Venus Karma:
If children are born under the stars Thiruvathirai, Chithirai, or Thiruvonam, either as their zodiac star, the star at the ascendant point, or the star occupied by the lord of the ascendant, it signifies that they are born with Venus karma as their karmic imprint. Additionally, if the lord of the ascendant is positioned in the third house, or the lord of the third house is in the ascendant, it further indicates Venus karma. Children with such karmic imprints, when it comes to marriage, must ensure that they treat their spouse with respect and value their presence. If they do so, Venus karma will exert its positive vibrations, leading to prosperity and well-being in the family.
At the same time, if a woman is influenced by Venus karma and her family treats her well, respects her, and ensures her needs are met, her life will thrive under the positive vibrations of Venus karma. Similarly, when a positive change of heart occurs in individuals influenced by either Mars karma or Venus karma, and they enter into marriage and begin their life together, their lives will flourish and attain greater prosperity and harmony.
The Sage’s Words to the Parents
The parents of the children gathered there requested the sage to guide their children and impart wisdom to them. The sage agreed and allocated a specific day to share meaningful insights with them. On that day, he explained how a life lived without understanding one another had led to many parents of this generation living together without harmony, merely for the sake of appearance. He urged the grandparents to take the initiative in helping these parents live in unity, fostering mutual understanding, and ensuring they lead a peaceful and fulfilling life.
The karma responsible for the behavior of mothers-in-law, which prevented those couples from living harmoniously, is primarily linked to Moon karma. This stems from the fact that the children who relied entirely on their mothers’ words, trusting them completely, failed to lead their own lives properly. Children born under the stars Bharani, Magham, Kettai, or Uthirattathi, whether as their zodiac star, the star at the ascendant point, or the star occupied by the lord of the ascendant, are considered to have been born with Moon karma as their karmic imprint. Furthermore, children born with Virgo as their ascendant or Libra as their ascendant are also believed to carry Moon karma as their karmic imprint. This karma influences their lives, leading to challenges in establishing independence and harmony.
Children influenced by such configurations tend to trust their mothers unconditionally, failing to consider the well-being of their own families. This blind trust often leads to misunderstandings and a lack of harmony in their married lives, ultimately resulting in the destruction of their own relationships. The sage advised that, in such cases, as mothers-in-law grow older, they should allow their children and daughters-in-law to live in harmony. By witnessing this unity, the younger generation may be inspired to believe that, just as their parents eventually found mutual understanding, they too can marry and live happily together. The sage blessed the elders and encouraged them to pray for their children to have a positive change of heart. He also advised children born with Moon karma to critically evaluate their mothers’ advice, considering whether their words and actions are truly appropriate, before acting upon them. Only by doing so can they ensure a balanced and harmonious life. The sage concluded with his blessings, wishing everyone a prosperous life.
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SriRam J.
அந்தக் காலத்தில் ஒரு சில குடும்பங்களில் மாட்டுப் பெண்களுக்கு இது போன்ற நிலை இருந்திருக்கலாம். எங்கள் வீடு 60 களில் கட்டப்பட்ட பெரிய வீடு. சுண்ணாம்பு காரையைக் கொண்டு கட்டப்பட்டது. தந்தை உணவுத் தொழில் அதில் சம்பாதித்து கட்டியது நான் மகம் நட்சத்திரம். அந்தக் காலத்தில் மழை பெய்யும்போது பக்கத்தில் உள்ள குட்டை நிரம்பி பக்கத்தில் உள்ள கூரை வீடுகளில் தண்ணீர் சூழ்ந்து விடும்.. ஜாதி பேதம் பார்க்காமல் அவர்களை வீட்டில் தங்க வைத்து ஒரு வாரமோ 10 நாட்களோ வெள்ளம் வடியும் வரை அவர்களுக்கு உணவளித்தோம். நான் என் அண்ணா தம்பி எல்லோரும் பள்ளியில் படித்துக் கொண்டிருந்தோம். சபரிமலை மாலை போட்டவுடன் மண்டல பூஜை நிறைவில் பெரிய அளவில் அன்னதானம் செய்திருக்கிறோம். எங்களால் முன்னேற்றம் அடைந்தவர் பலர். சந்திரன் கர்மா , குரு கர்மா இருந்ததால் தெய்வ அனுக்கிரகமும் பல சோதனைகளில் இருந்து காப்பாற்றியது.
Sudha Natarajan
வணக்கம். உங்கள் கருத்துக்களுக்கு மிக்க நன்றி.
S.Sampoornam J.Muthukrishnan
மாற்றம் ஒன்றே மாறாதது.உண்மையான தத்துவம்.அருமையான விளக்கம்.பண்டு காலத்தில் நடந்த உண்மை மிக அழகாக கூறப்பட்டுள்ளது.
Sudha Natarajan
வணக்கம். உங்கள் மேலான கருத்துக்களுக்கு எங்களின் மனமார்ந்த நன்றிகள் பல. எங்களின் ஒவ்வொரு பதிவிலும் உங்களின் கருத்துக்களை வரவேற்கிறோம். மேலும் மேலும் இதைப் போன்ற பதிவுகளைக் கொடுக்க அந்த இறைவனின் அருளை வேண்டுகிறோம். நன்றி.